Friday, August 27, 2010

10 WEEKS OLD

I wanted to start doing this on a monthly basis, but since I haven't been so GOOD at the organizational thing since Owen was born, I decided to start now and just do another one in 3 weeks when he is 3 MONTHS OLD (i can't believe my precious angel will be 3 months old soon)!

You weigh 12lbs 4oz. You are 23.5 inches long! You are wearing a size 1 diaper. You are fitting into size 0-3 months very good. You absolutely can NOT wear newborn anymore...you are too long. You would have enough space/room in them, they just don't seem to stretch long enough! :) I don't really know how quickly you will grow, so I ahven't bought any clothes for the cold weather yet, but I have my eye on an adorable fleece sweater vest outfit at Penny's!

You are eating 4-5oz every 4 to 5 hours. Sometimes you get off and only eat like 2-3oz and you get hungry MUCH sooner! You have had rice cereal in your formula since you were 3 weeks old! That much food doesn't seem like enough, but the dr. says you have fine eating habits because you are thriving beautifully! I really like your Dr., she makes me feel like a great mother every time I leave! You are in the above average group of children your age.

You are cooing and ahhing. You just laugh at daddy every time he talks to you! You do this thing where you turn your head to the side and smile this big smile like you are being timid and shy! It is the sweetest thing!

You aren't getting startled much anymore. You still do it sometimes when we get you naked and ready for bath time. Your eyes get real big (like a possum - lol) and you just hold your arms out to the side and kind of roll back and forth a little! You LOVE to be naked. I think if I never put clothes on you again you would be the happiest baby. It's funny how things change...you HATED it at one month old.

You also LOVE your bathtime! You would just lay in there and kick your legs around in it. You don't splash or anything much just because you are just now starting to voluntarily move your arms and legs around. But you will sit there and just make this (ahhhhh) sound cause you like the way the water feels...especially on your head!

You have started to try and laugh! You do this thing where you let out air and suck back in and it makes a noise in your throat and to us it sounds like a laugh! You are always smiling when you do it, so I know you are happy, so it must be a laugh!

It won't hold your attention long because you are still too young, but when it does catch your attention, you love watching the tv screen. You will just stare and stare. Daddy and I decided we are going to go get some baby einstein stuff for you this weekend! You will love the flashing colors...especially withing the next month or so! We are also going to start letting you look at yourself in the mirror. We read that it is a good way for you to start learning how to communicate. Sometime you could just watch a ceiling fan! But that also doesn't hold your attention long! You are just too you\ng for anything to hold your attention for hours.

Speaking of hours...you are supposed to try and have a nap twice a day for an hour/few hours. Your Dr. says that some babies don't require that much sleep, but if you don't take a nap you get grumpy by the afternoon/evening.

You absolutely hate tummy time, but you need it because you will never strengthen those muscles! You are trying to hold your head up on your own and you are doing such a good job! You can, but it's obviously still a little wobbly. You will get the hang of it before we know it!

You aren't a huge paci, but you can't really fall asleep without it. It's weird. On occasion you can, but most of the time, not. You have discovered your hands and fingers (sort of)...well you have discovered that you like sucking on your hands and fingers. You are such a squirmy baby! If you weren't so squirmy and ended up working your hand away from your mouth, I think you could just lay there all day content as can be sucking on that hand. The noises you make just crack me and daddy up!

I have to rock you to sleep! Sometimes when I lay you down you grunt and stuff, but mostly go back to sleep. We still have nights where you don't, but most of the time you do. You are trying SO HARD to consistently sleep through the night. You have done SOO good the past 4 nights. One of those nights you did wake up at 3:30AM to eat but your eating habits were off pretty bad that day! Last night you slept from 9:30 to 6AM. This morning you also went to the bathroom (and I don't mean pee pee) without a diaper on...all over the changing table pad. You just watched me while you did it and smiled the WHOLE time! As stinky as it was...I had a smile on my face the whole time I was cleaning it up! You brighten my day more than I EVER thought you would or could! You usually go to bed around 9. Sometimes you wake up for your paci and all I have to do is go into your nursery and put it back in. You have been in your own room since you were 6 weeks old...and I think you LOVE it!

You HATE your swing! I don't know why, but it is absolutely not fast enough for you. You like to be rocked, bounced, swung, whatever, you name it, BIG! I don't know if you just like it big or ifyou have tummy aches from gas and reflux! Whatver it is that's just how you like it and the swing doesn't go fast enough...plus it slows down and then speeds back up so you just aren't having that! You are on medicine for your reflux and gas. I hate having to give it to you, but the Dr. has reassured me that it is ALL fine! You were taking Zantac, but is changed to Prilosec for your reflux...2 times a day. You are on Mylanta for reflux and gas...4 times a day. You are taking Milicon when you eat and don't take Mylanta (which sometimes is never, but other times is only 1). YOu also recently got exzema but we have some cream that clears it right up! I wish you didn't have it, but I am so glad there is something to fix it if it does happen to pop up. It works almost immediately!

You are getting some fuzz for hair. Its funny cause it's thick around your neck but no where else. I made fun of a kid one time who had pawpaw hair and I think it's coming back to bite me! You will get a full head soon! I have no doubt!

Mommy and Daddy LOVE YOU SO MUCH! You are the best thing that could have ever happened to us and we didn't even know it! We are having such a good time watching you grow and discover the world!

Monday, August 23, 2010

Owen Carter Travis

Owen was born on June 18, 2010 at 4:38pm. He weighed 8lbs and was 20.5 inches long. To try and make a long story short...Charlie and I went to the hospital at about 6AM on June 18. I had been having contractions all night and they finally started coming about 5 minutes apart. I was so excited when I got to the hospital and saw that MY doctor was on the floor stillf rom the evening before. They put me on monitors and quickly realized it was time and got me a room/admitted me. My contractions started to speed up significantly after Dr. Blair broke my water (fyi pretty gross). Anyway, I was as calm as a cucumber! I was so excited and relaxed (Charlie was too). I could not wait to meet Owen. Once my contractions got to where I couldn't catch a break I finally asked for an epidural. I didn't want to take one too soon...I knew I was stronger than that. They got to where they were every one minute and lasting about one minute! I never knew I could stand that, but I did...now I couldn't have stood it for very long. By the time the anesthesiologist got in I had already had enough! (fyi epidural not bad at all...I thought it was going to be the scariest part...boy was I wrong). Finally around 3:00 Dr. Blair came in and said i could start pushing (after laying there for hours waiting to fully dilate - Owen was ready - babies are supposed to be in position 0 when about to push - he was lower - sometimes he was so low it was hard for the nurses to tell how much I was dilated). Anwyay, the moment was finally here! It was time for me to push...no turning back now! Charlie was WONDERFUL! I would not have been able to push as much/long if it weren't for him! AFter about an hour and a half Dr. Blair came in and tried to use the vacuum. By this time I was SOOOO TIRED! The vacuum wasn't working! I fianlly looked at Charlie and said I can't and just kind of went limp for a minute! Everything got sort of echoey (i know thats not a word) and I started to feel sick. I heard Dr. Blair throw everything down and call the OR and said our heart rates were dropping and not coming back up. I was on oxygen the whole time but apparently that wasn't helping...my body was wore out! As she was rolling me to the OR I was throwing up everywhere...I felt horrible and I knew where they were carrying me...I was so sad for that! I wanted to have Owen the other way and I sort of wanted to yell out "I can try again...I can try again". But I knew it wasn't going to work! Once they got me on "the table" they strapped my arms down (b/c my body was shaking so bad from the epidural) and they put the screen up. I just kept thinking...where's Charlie...we can't start without Charlie. (side note: all of this was stuff I was thinking - I was so out of it I couldn't even talk - I just kept looking around kind of in a daze). Then Charlie got there and stayed at my head the whole time! He was very concerned about me and knew I was freaking out. I could hear the razor and I could hear everyone talking but I couldn't tell you what they were saying because it was all just kind of mumbling. They gave me some nasty drink/medicine. Before I knew it I felt some pretty extreme pressure and then felt empty (it was weird). Then I just looked at Charlie and we made eye contact until we heard him cry for the first time! I started crying and I am certain Charlie's eyes started watering but he never cried! From what I hear and the pictures I have seen he was a pretty HAPPY DADDY though...so PROUD! They brought him over to me and I wish I would have been able to hold him but I started getting sick and just looked away. Something just didn't feel quite right about seeing him for the first time and feeling sick so I kind of talked to him for a second and looked away. They took him away and Dr. Blair made Charlie go to the nursary. I was just laying there helpless. For whatever reason they had unstrapped my arms (I think they were going to let me try and hold my baby...but I started throwing up again. Before I knew it my arms were out of control and were trying to pull down the blue screen in front of me. Next thing I know I wake up in the OR and they put me on the bed that rolls to my room and they rolled me to the recovery room. I am pretty sure they had to knock me out to calm me down because I don't remember anything! I saw my mom first...then my dad. I just kept saying I was sorry I tried to have him (like they cared...I was OUT OF IT). Once I got back to the room I got to hold Owen. I have pictures but I vaguely remember this. If I could do anything over again it would have been to hold him in the OR sick or not. I would have remembered that! Well...it all worked out fine. We finally came home 3 days later...spent the first night in the ER. Mom and Charlie had their hands full with a screaming baby and a histerical Jessica. My nerves...pardon my language...were to hell and back. Ended up...we probably weren't feeding him enough. After that we had some rough night until just about 2 weeks ago. He is finally trying to sleep through the night. Some nights he does! He really is a precious angel...I think I just expect too much from him sometimes. All in all we are doing great and I can't wait to watch our baby grow!

Here are A LOT of pictures since it has taken me so long to post anything!
JUNE 18,2010



JUNE 19, 2010



NEWBORN HOSPITAL PICTURES


FIRST DAY HOME



ONE WEEK OLD



ONE WEEK AND ONE DAY OLD



TWO WEEKS OLD



THREE WEEKS OLD

(at three weeks we tried the newborn session...not so much...)



FOUR WEEKS OLD

(dr. visit)





ONE MONTH OLD





TWO MONTHS OLD